Tony,
This may sound really dumb, but....shake the car harness at the ECU or give the ECU a couple of little taps.
We had to shake our wires a bit to get it to work.
Measuring the voltage at the plug proved to be very difficult. It turned out to be a 5 volt system and we could only get a reading in milivolts. The connection and software sound good on your car. I think it may be a chassis harness issue.
Wiggle things around. Also, Re-boot everything, with the car connected.
Car On, Ignition On, reboot PC and start software.